Party like it’s 1993

Last week there was a knock at the door.  It was my neighbour and their niece, who I’d been told was having her 18th birthday party next door to us on Saturday night.

Since we have young kids who might wake up from the noise, she was told to go and tell me in person – to explain they’d definitely turn the music off at midnight…that there are only about thirty girls going to the party, and even some parents would be there.  Golly gosh.  In other words, quite a harmless 18th birthday party arrangement.

Of course I gave her the OK to go ahead with her 18th, and to have a great time.  As she looked up at me, her spotty face beaming, dressed in her school uniform, she instantly made me feel like a middle-aged parent-type.  Which of course I am.  Lovely.

I shut the door and tried to remember what exactly it was that I was doing at 18.  In that moment, I actually couldn’t remember.  All I knew was that it felt like a long, long time ago, whatever it was that I did back then.  I promptly decided to forget about it before I made myself feel any older.

On Saturday afternoon we went & had a look at the set-up for the party with our neighbours.  The house is actually being demolished in a couple of weeks, so it’s completely empty – and if it’s trashed, no-one cares.  The perfect party venue.

There was a “conversation pod” room (lol) with beanbags and a futon…a disco ball in the lounge – at least they haven’t gone out of fashion; a table tennis table in another room.  And as they had full permission to destroy the place, the walls had been graffitied with messages.

We were reading some of the messages on the walls and having a good laugh, when we noticed this one above the

Party like it’s 1993!!!

The laughter subsided.  There was a cough or two.  Then a short silence.

“Hang on.”  I felt one of my blonde moments coming on.  “Does that mean she was born in 1993?”

Silence, then me again.

“Oh my God, she was born in 1993.”

If we weren’t feeling old before that moment, we were now.

Me: “I was in year 12 in 1993…”

My neighbour: “I was in my first year of Uni in ’93.”

Mr. 42: “I finished school in ’86!”

Lots of laughter from us ‘young’ girls.  1986!

Then our other neighbour cleared his throat.  “I finished in ’84.”



So again I was made to think – what did I actually do in 1993?

It was the year I finished school.  I remember a fairly horrible frantic panic of last minute cramming sessions before my HSC, as a result of spending too much time flirting with boys in my science classes.  It was the year when I first discovered the benefits of caffeine at 2am when studying for science exams.  It was also the year I discovered that caffeine and last-minute cramming were not going provide the HSC marks I desired, which forced me to completely rethink what I was going to do after school.  I remember feeling quite lost and confused – I really had no idea what I wanted to do, and yet there was an expectation that I should somehow know by now.  At 17.

So I escaped up the coast to schoolies week, and still being just 17, armed myself with a $10 fake ID I’d purchased through an ad in Dolly magazine.  Awesome.

I flittered about on the Gold Coast with a few high school friends, and boys who I’d never met before.  My trusty fake ID got me into any nightclub I chose, and I spent a fortnight clubbing, drinking bourbon & coke, buying flavoured condoms from Condom Kingdom and giggling like the silly teenagers we were.  Getting back to the hotel at 7am and having a morning swim, before crashing into bed and sleeping till 3…then doing it all over again with no trouble at all.  When I managed to find a payphone, I’d call my parents reverse charge to let them know all was well.  No mobile phones of course.  (I wonder now if my parents got any sleep at all in the time I was away?)

I remember reading a lot of this in 1993:

And envying the likes of Elle MacPherson and Niki Taylor.  Having long-standing crushes on Johnny Depp and the entire cast of Dead Poet’s Society (with the exception of Robin Williams).  Getting my P’s, but not before driving my parent’s car into the side wall of the driveway.  Driving my parents completely insane.  Thinking I knew so much about life and relationships – but of course how little I actually knew!

I’d love to know…what were you doing in 1993?  


6 responses to “Party like it’s 1993

  1. Dolly was advertising fakies?! Haha! I wasn’t as brave as you… I never tried my fake ID at Schoolies. But being 17 during that week means I’ve now decided that my future children will start school at a time that ensures they’ll be 18 by Schoolies. They’ll thank me later :).

    As for 1993? NO IDEA. I think I spent that whole year watching Noddy and Play School…


    • Here in VIC they have to be turning 6 in the year they start school…so they’re all adults when they finish, at least. Funnily enough, the fake ID at the time didn’t feel like a brave stunt, but just a logical way of getting into clubs – nowadays, you couldn’t pay me to go clubbing! The fact that you were watching Noddy in 1993 makes me just want to give you a big hug, you wee girl 🙂

  2. Wow it is starting to get a little scary … we are the ‘oldies’ that I used to look to in 1993 and think I’ll never be like them. LOL … now I AM them. In 1993 I was in year 10 at highschool, like you driving my parents completely mad and managed to get myself so drunk at a bon fire party that year I had to be driven home to my parents vomitting everywhere. And at the risk of TMI 1993 was also the year I lost my virginity to an 18 yr old who really didn’t appreciate me.

    So when my kids get to their ‘1993’ I really hope they have a better run of it and don’t do silly things like I did. LOL

  3. It is a bit scary, the cycle of life! I remember 91 as the year I got my hands on a bottle of Midori and tried to drink the lot (tasted sweet after all..). To this day, I can’t even look at Midori without feeling ill. Horrible to think our kids might do the same silly things, but then it’s part of the learning experience I guess…I just want my kids to be street smart enough to deal with it. 🙂

  4. In ’93 I was in my first year of Uni and living out of home for the first time in the sticks in Bundoora! OMG its scary when I think of that time – and yes lots of Cleo reading, eating egg and tomato sauce sandwiches (uni budget!), discovering shall we say less than legal ways to pass the time… Wow it feels so long ago yet weirdly just yesterday!

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